6 Lies That Every New Mummy Gets To Hear
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Now that you have given birth to your precious, little angel, you can’t wait to go back home. Everything seems perfect. After all, it is always an incredible feeling when you become a mother. In fact, even your family leaves no stone unturned to pamper you. But, when you are a first-time mom, things are slightly different. Though the pampering comes in with the same vigor, it is pretty natural to feel a little lost at times. And, it doesn’t help that advice pours in from all corners. It is almost like they realize that you might not protest the unsolicited advice as much.
Of course, all these people only want the best for you. But, it is hard not to wonder whether how much of what they tell you is the absolute truth. Don’t you worry. Here, we bring you some of the most common lies that almost every new mom is told:
1. Sleep When Your Little One Is Sleeping
Perhaps, this is one of the most common advice given to new moms. Yes, this might work for some mothers. But, there are also mommies who end up finishing all the pending work during their little ones’ nap time. They might take a shower, catch up with their friends, or even desire a breath of fresh air. While there is no doubt that it is a useful advice, it is important to remember that it might not work out for all the moms.
2. Breastfeeding Hurts? Maybe, You Are Not Doing It The Right Way
The irony is that even a lot of health experts believe that breastfeeding should not hurt if it is done in the correct manner. But, to be frank, it does not matter how amazing you are at breastfeeding; having your breast sucked on every couple of hours might still lead to cuts, sores, and blisters. And, this is perfectly normal. But, after around six weeks or so, when the pain subsides a little, this advice does hold some substance.
3. Your Life Will Entirely Change, In Ways More Than One
Of course, there is some truth to this. After all, childbirth is definitely a life-changing experience. But, many people will tell you that you won’t have any time to do stuff that you used to do pre-pregnancy. Be it traveling to different exotic locations or just hanging out with your friends. While this might be the case in the initial phases, it is not going to be the same always. So, just take this advice with a pinch of salt and keep doing your thing.
4. Cherish This Moment Because Time Flies
You will often find experienced moms telling you this with an understanding, sympathetic smile on their face. And, from the moment you are told this, it will continue to haunt you. You will find yourself thinking about this as you struggle to change the little one’s diaper or see him/her taking the first step. But, amid all the craziness and nostalgia, you will soon realize that there will always be a new experience to look forward to.
5. The Initial Phase Is The Best
Yes, that might be true. But, it is one of the toughest phases too. You have a lot of things to figure out, be it breastfeeding, napping, or feeding routine. On top of this, you are still recovering from your delivery. We do understand that getting to hold your little one in your arms is heart-warming. But, the struggles don’t disappear. So, don’t beat yourself up for not always being at your best.
6. Once Your Baby Is Here, You Will Not Remember Anything
All experienced moms will tell you that you are going to forget all about the labor pains once your baby comes in the picture. Yes, looking at your little one will bring in a sort of contentment that you may have never experienced before. But, the childbirth experience is something that one can’t easily forget. Of course, all those who tell you this will have your best interests at heart. And, will mostly tell you this to motivate you. But, don’t feel bad if you are often reminded of some childbirth experiences.
Can you think of something else that we might have missed? Please share with all the fellow moms in the comments section below!
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