31 Long Distance Relationship Activities For Couples To Try
Specialty: Anxiety, Depression, Couples Counseling and Perinatal Mental Health (PPD & PPA)Experience: 8 yearsJessica Jefferson is a licensed marriage and family therapist and a certified perinatal mental health professional who is trained to help clients suffering from mental health disorders like anxiety and depression. She graduated with a Bachelors in Psychology from the University of Miami, a Masters in Psychology in Education from Teachers College, Columbia University and a Masters in Family Therapy from Nova Southeastern University.
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A long-distance relationship can only survive the test of time if there is trust, patience, and love between both partners. In this post, we bring you a list of long-distance relationship activities that will keep the spark going and keep you entertained. So, if you miss your partner and want to spend some quality time with them, make a call and play these games. We assure you of a fun time. Plunge into this post for a list of activities that will keep both you and your partner engaged and help strengthen your bond.
31 Long Distance Relationship Activities
The hardest part of being in a long distance relationship is the waiting period when you miss each other and wish that you could be together. But the waiting period need not always be a bad thing. It can be used to nurture the relationship and make your love grow fonder.
Include your partner in your daily activities by telling them about your routine and your work, your colleagues and friends.
Here are a few creative and fun activities that you and your partner should try to make the long distance relationship work.
1. Plan a surprise visit
Nothing can make your partner happy than opening the door and finding you. If your partner is feeling low and tells you they missed you, then plan a surprise visit and sweep them off their feet. Plan the visit carefully though, to make sure your partner is at home and not engaged otherwise. That said, try not to be too discreet as they might end up perceiving your actions negatively. Leave a few hints here and there – keep them guessing.
2. Write love letters
Technology might have made many things obsolete, but this activity can never get old. Think old-fashioned, pick up the pen, and write a love letter for your partner. The best part about this is that your partner can actually see your handwriting, feel the words filled with love and emotions. It gets all the better if the letter arrives when they are missing you. Even better is when your partner writes a reply to your love letter.
3. Video chat
Video chatting is a boon for couples in long-distance relationships. Through Skype, Facetime, or any video calling app, you can see each other anytime, anywhere. Call them the first thing in the morning, during your commute to work, or just before hitting the bed. Video calls are like an oasis for the couple who are longing for each other’s company.
Point to consider4. Play an online game together
Another fun activity for you and your partner to spend time with each is online gaming. If you and your partner enjoy getting competitive while playing games, then pick up a multiplayer game and play to your heart’s content. Playing online games can help you feel closer to your partner.
5. Wear matching outfits
Just because you are not together, doesn’t mean you cannot do romantic things like wearing matching outfits. Plan your days and pick a color to wear matching outfits to work. You can also buy matching PJs, click pictures, or have a video call wearing the outfits.
6. Share pictures of your day
If you have kids, then there will be many moments which your partner will not be able to witness. Be it the child’s first word, first day at school, or your new dress, all those precious moments can be shared with them. This way, you can make them a part of your life even when they are far away.
7. Send gifts and open them simultaneously
Sending gifts to your loved one needs no occasion. When you spot something your partner would like, buy it, and send it to them. To add to the excitement, both of you can plan and send each other gifts (without revealing what it is) and then open them simultaneously while on a phone call or video call. Sending care packages for personal well-being can be a wonderful way to show them your love and care.
Quick tip8. Create an adventure book together
When in a long distance relationship, together-time is precious. Both you and your partner might have many thoughts and plans on how to spend it. So, why not plan and discuss what all you want to do. You can also create a bucket list and plan to strike off one item at a time. Or, maintain a journal and stick pictures of you two exploring new places.
9. Fall asleep together
You crave for your partner’s touch; you remember all those times when you cuddled together and slept. This activity is for those times when you miss being with your partner. Although you cannot replicate the touch, you can sleep in each other’s presence with this sweet activity. Start with a call and talk until either or both of you fall asleep.
10. Watch a movie together
It might not be the same as when you both are together, but still, you can make it to a movie together. You both can select a movie or a TV show and stream it online or play it simultaneously. Also, there are some movie tools which enable you to see each other’s reactions as if you are watching it sitting next to each other. This can be a fun idea of going on a virtual date.
11. Show gestures of love
When you and your partner have to stay away from each other, try to convey your love through small gestures. For example, if your partner loves beaches but is in a landlocked place, go to a beach near you and write their name on the sand or using pebbles, click a picture and send it to them. Gestures such as sharing music that reminds you of them or reading books together will show how much you miss them.
12. Order their favorite dish
Imagine your partner is back from a day of hectic work, tired and hungry, dreading to cook for themselves, and then they get a surprise delivery – food from their favorite restaurant. Give them company through a video call, and we’re pretty sure your partner will enjoy the meal more than ever.
13. Cook together
If both of you enjoy cooking, then make it an ongoing activity even when you are away from each other. Pick up a recipe, and start cooking together during a video call. Once done, you can taste your respective dishes and discuss how each one’s dish tastes and ways to upgrade it.
Quick tip14. Share your pic every day
This might sound silly but trust us, waking up to your partner’s smiling face (even a photo) makes your day better. Don’t you agree? For this idea to work, both of you must commit to sending each other selfies before you head to work, every day. This will also motivate you to get dressed, impress your partner, and leave sweet memories until you both meet the next time.
15. Plan for your next visit
This is probably the most obvious long distance relationship activity. Both you and your partner will be longing to see each other, so make the waiting period exciting by planning the next meeting together. Both of you can suggest ideas about the things you could do and places you can go to, and make all the memories you can. Traveling to or with your partner is a wonderful way to strengthen your relationship.
16. Read a book together
Pick a book that you both enjoy and read it together at the same pace. During your calls, take regular intervals and discuss the plot line, characters, and scenarios. You may also share your thoughts and feelings about the book, which can help you understand each other better.
Reading books together can also help partners navigate issues and arguments. Anggun Bawi, a blogger, recounts how she and her partner, facing increased conflicts, opted for a positive change in their long-distance relationship. She shares,“When my partner and I realized we had fought more often, we decided to make a change and fill the time we spend together over the phone with reading books. Turns out it’s more fun and fulfilling as you learn something new along the way as well (i).”
17. Attend an online class together
Enroll yourself in an online class together. The online class could range anything from a cooking class, a pottery class, a language class, or maybe even a lecture series on art and history. Attending the lectures and doing class-related activities together will make you feel closer to your partner.
18. Conduct online quizzes and trivia
Take online quizzes and trivia challenges together. This can be a fun way to learn from each other. Quiz your partner on how well they know about you and make it more interesting by placing friendly bets on the outcome.
19. Share playlists
Create music playlists for each other and share it. Include the songs that remind you of each other or your relationship. You can also curate a joint playlist with songs that define your relationship or those you enjoy listening to.
20. Solve online puzzle games
Solve puzzles together, whether crosswords, Sudoku, or jigsaw puzzles, using apps or websites designed for this purpose. Besides having a competitive element, these games engage you in a fun conversation while spending quality time together.
21. Journal exchange
Keep a shared online journal where you can write about your thoughts, experiences, and feelings. This is a great way to stay emotionally close while in a long-distance relationship. Sharing your feelings can also help strengthen the bond you share.
22. Try virtual reality
If you both have virtual reality (VR) headsets, consider exploring virtual worlds or experiences, such as VR chats or VR games together. It can feel like you’re in the same place, even when staying miles apart.
23. Engage in a shared hobby
Hobbies are fun things to do that can make you happy and help you relax. So you and your partner can try a new hobby together that you can do easily at home, such as knitting or baking, or something over a call, like playing a game. You could try many different hobbies, so find one you both enjoy.
24. Do chores together
Try a laundry folding date or video chatting while cleaning out the refrigerator. Choosing these activities with your partner is a great way to stay connected and have some fun while doing something productive.
25. Explore new things about each other
Prepare a set of deep and intimate questions and put them forth to each other. These will help you get to know your partner better and deepen your bond.
26. Take an online compatibility test
An online compatibility test for long-distance couples assists by evaluating partners’ compatibility through questions based on their values, communication, and interests. It enhances communication as couples discuss their responses, aiding in a deeper understanding of each other’s perspectives.
27. Play truth or dare
Truth or dare helps maintain a sense of fun and connection. It prompts partners to ask revealing questions or engage in entertaining challenges, inducing spontaneity and enjoyment into the relationship.
28. Make TikTok videos
Jump on some trending TikTok trends and recreate them uniquely with your long-distance partners. They are a fun way to stay connected to your partner and bring out the lighter side of each other.
29. Send ‘open when’ letters
Consider crafting heartfelt, uplifting messages in personalized, hand-written letters. Categorize them as ‘open when sad,’ ‘open when happy,’ or ‘open when you feel lonely.’ These notes serve as instant mood boosters for your partner, especially when you are in a long-distance relationship.
30. Do skincare together
Your boyfriend will most likely not have a skincare regimen in place. Share the basics and do your skincare routine together over a video call. It’s a great way to care for your skin and stay connected with your partner. Relax with a face mask and your favorite song for some quality time after a busy day.
31. Explore how your future babies might look
Some AI websites can morph pictures of parents to create a baby’s possible appearance by mixing the parents’ images. If you and your partner are inquisitive about your future, you might have fun conversations about how your future kids will look by trying these sites.
Frequently Asked Questions
1. How do I make my long-distance partner feel special?
Staying distant from your partner doesn’t mean you cannot do extraordinary things for them. With the technology today, there are many ways to make your partner feel ecstatic. You may arrange for video dates, send them lovely gifts or their favorite meal and eat together via video calls, write romantic letters, handwritten poetry, or surprise mails.
2. What are some important things in a long-distance relationship?
Some crucial factors that help you sail through difficult times in a long-distance relationship are having trust and effective communication, giving emotional support, allocating time for each other, and being committed to the relationship.
3. What is the hardest part of a long-distance relationship?
Every long-distance relationship may have its own set of challenges based on the relationship they share. However, some of the most demanding issues that people in this type of relationship frequently encounter are physical separation, miscommunication, concerns with trust and jealousy, loneliness, and future uncertainty.
4. Should long-distance couples talk every day?
The frequency of communication in a long-distance relationship varies depending on the preferences and circumstances of the individuals involved. While some couples may prefer to talk every day, others may find it more manageable and satisfying to have less frequent communication. It is essential to find a balance that works for both partners and respects their individual needs and schedules.
Long-distance relationship activities play a significant role in keeping the spark alive. You and your partner may often be busy in different places, and it may not be easy to take out enough time for each other. However, you must give it a try. This way, you will also be able to make time for each other and use it efficiently towards building a stronger bond. The motive behind all these ideas is to keep in touch with each other and not miss any fun. So, don’t allow the distance to play spoilsport.
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Key Pointers
- The lack of physical intimacy can lead to increased trust issues and thereby make it difficult for couples to be in a long-distance relationship.
- Indulging in some interesting activities can make couples in a long-distance relationship come closer to each other.
- Going the old-fashioned way of writing letters, planning surprise visits, watching movies together (virtually), etc., are some ideas you can try to decrease the emotional distance between you and your partner.
Illustration: Long Distance Relationship Activities For Couples To Try
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