7 Things Men Notice About Their Girlfriends
shivani k 
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When a woman meets a man for the first time, the only question that lingers in her head is —what is it that he notices in me? What is the first thing that attracts a guy? Is it our hair, our vibe, or our tribe? Of course, we can never judge a book by its cover. And it takes a lot of meetings and conversations under the stars for two people to understand each other and build a strong bond. But there are certain things that instantly attract a man to such an extent that he would cross the busy streets of NYC to come and say a “Hi” to you.
We know that everything around is relative, including men’s desires. Every person out there has their own unique set of preferences. While some guys prefer blondes over brunettes, some prefer girly girls over a tomboy babe. Either way, there are a plenty of traits that catch a guy’s attention. And don’t we, as girls, always wonder what these traits are? Especially if we’re crushing over someone!
Below is a list of less-scientific things that can set off an initial spark between the guy and you.
1. That Smile
Have you ever listened to the popular singer, Sia’s “You’re never fully dressed without a smile” song? If you haven’t, you definitely should. A smile is hands down the only beautiful accessory a woman can wear to instantly attract a man (1). If you have a genuine smile that is worth a million bucks, no man would hesitate to come and approach you. A smile can melt any man’s heart instantly.
2. That Laugh
Men love attention, period. Especially when they are cracking jokes and donning the humorous hat (2). When you laugh or giggle at their jokes, they feel like they are amazing entertainers. At the same time, never fake a laugh as it can be very noticeable. Just like a smile, a genuine laugh is something that men always notice and get attracted to.
3. Those Eyes
Eyes are considered to be the most scintillating feature of a woman. And when we read about how eyes are known to be the windows of one’s soul, the claim definitely stands true. No other feature of a person can show the depth of emotions like the eyes do (3). Eye contact with the person you love deepens bonds instantly. Well, aren’t the eyes responsible for one to fall in love at first sight after all?
4. That Body
At the end of the day, when it comes to attraction, the body always acts like a trump card. Of course, it’s not a given that a man is going to stay with a woman forever just because she has a fab bod. But it would be unrealistic to ignore the fact that men do notice women’s bodies even at the first meeting (4). And, why not? Don’t we spend hours to pick that perfect date outfit to enhance our figures? So, let the guy take a good look while we flaunt it.
5. The Personal Style
Unless the man you are meeting today is from the fashion industry or has a good sense of fashion, there is no way he would be able to identify the type of pants you are you wearing or the brand that your killer heels belong to. Irrespective of that, the one thing that men observe is the outfit that you wear. They basically compare it to their own taste — too loud or too meh. Some men like women dressed up like dolls, while some love it when a woman walks in wearing a hoodie, a pair of jeans, and casual sneakers.
6. That Hair
Women put in a lot of effort and time in maintaining and grooming their hair. Men may not be able to differentiate between soft curls and waves, but they will certainly notice your hair. Who wouldn’t want to get tangled in the magic that your tresses create?
7. That Scent
Body scent is like the epitome when it comes to the game of attraction between two people of the opposite sex. Men don’t really have many choices when it comes to deodorants or perfumes when compared to women. And men for sure get attracted to the smell of a woman! It could be her natural body odor, the smell of her shampoo, the body mist she sprays on herself or the smell of the body butter she uses every day. The smell lingers on and definitely catches the attention of the guy with whom she is.
Have you ever asked your man what was the first thing he noticed when you both met for the first time? We’re sure the answers would be very romantic. Do leave them in the comments below!
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