10 Guys You Should Never Date!
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Fed up of relationship problems? Is it hard to believe there’s someone decent and deserving out there for you? You look at the way women around you fall hard for the wrong guys and wonder, “How can I stop myself from getting into a relationship that I regret?” Well, read on and make a note of certain types of men whom you should avoid!
1. The Boaster
This incessant show-off will put everyone off very soon. It may seem cute and funny when he begins to boast about his looks, about a job well done, and so on, but the way he goes on and on and never ends his boasting only indicates that he really cares very little about you. He will never know you or understand your needs. Not worth your time, for sure!
2. Sneaky Hands
Some guys freak you out by getting too physical too soon. When you have hardly met a couple of times, his tendency to break into your personal space by sitting too close can be so offensive. And far from being romantic, the guy who touches you too soon is creepy at best, and scary too. You are right to be wary and break off with such a person.
3. The Dumbstruck
A man should be able to assert himself, defend himself in speech, and above all, speak about his feelings for you. Even hardcore introverts, once they fall in love, manage to do this and impress their women. But a passive man who cannot voice his love and prove that he cares would be a poor choice for a partner, indeed! His behavior makes us doubt if he really cares and if he is worth all the trouble.
4. The Irresponsible
He won’t throw the trash or remember to pay any of the bills. Even if it is his student loan, you have to remind him of the due date. All sweet talk and no wish to help is a sign of irresponsibility. It means he offers nothing more than emotional support. You have to do all the thinking and complete all the work. Avoid him at all costs.
5. The Over-Desired
Every woman stares at him, and he can make them laugh too. He is well-turned out, and charming on top of that! But, beware of the man who is too good at his game. He is bound to break your heart, especially if you value truth and loyalty. And what chances do you have of getting back together when there are so many aspirants for his affection? You would be better off with a normal person for whom love is life and not just a game.
6. The Taken
It is easy to spot this guy. He still misses his ex and no one can measure up to her. The fact that he is unmarried hardly qualifies him as being single. He is hers forever, and you’d better steer clear after the first date. You don’t want to spend your life listening to how awesome another woman is. He is never going to be over her, and you are not going to get much out of this relationship.
7. The Badass
Sure, he’s attractive, his attitude’s captivating, and the first few times you watch him get into scrapes that he bulldozers his way out of are riveting. But then this becomes a pattern, and he will not stop drinking or even attempt to rethink his lifestyle. Nor does education or a plan for the future concern him much! Now, can you imagine living this life for a longer period? Get a grip on your own life and keep away from him.
8. The Brains
You need a dictionary to understand his jokes, and he can never see the point when you and your friends are laughing your heads off at something everyone finds funny. Preoccupied with scientific phenomena and dilemmas, he is never there for anyone, let alone his romantic partner. You are likely to be bored out of your mind. Keep away from tiresome intellectuals who know very little about the value of relationships.
9. The Fickle
An ardent supporter of one thing today, he begins to hate it the very next day. One day he wants to excel in a certain field, but you find that he has enrolled in a totally unrelated two-year course? Now you are not even sure if he will complete this course or switch over to something else. If you think he is justified in changing his mind too often, stick to him. But if you feel this is a deficiency, you should not date him.
10. The Social Animal
Thursday is “party night,” he says. How fun it is! But so is Friday, Saturday, and most other days. Have you started missing out on deadlines after you started hanging out with him? No one can party every day, but if that is what he does, then dating him will put you on the wrong track.
Life today can be confusing. Choose your friends wisely and date prudently because, as you can see, there are so many weird types around whom you can totally do without!
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