Dating Someone? Here’s How To Know If He Is Your Soulmate!
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Casual dating is a myth. At the end of the day, all you want is someone you can curl up to on a Friday night while watching a bad romantic movie and having the sense of security that he is “The One.” So, if you are dating currently, but don’t know if he’s the man you’d be walking down the aisle with, here are 15 signs that’ll assure you that this one is a keeper!
1. You Can Be Yourself Without Fear
You’re not afraid that he’ll leave you if he saw your ‘out-of-bed-no-makeup’ look. Neither are you scared to be your worst. With him, you can be your crazy, silly self all the time and not care about impressing or being judged!
2. You’re His Best Friend
And he is yours! Whenever you think of a situation where you need your bestie (even if it’s getting drunk and going crazy), his is the first name that pops into your head.
3. You Get Over Fights Pretty Quickly
You gel so well with him that fights just seem like minor bumps on the road of your amazing journey together. Ego doesn’t come in the way because the relationship is much more important.
4. You Have Fun Together
Hanging out is an understatement when you guys are together. You can have so much fun with him, even if you’re doing something stupid like playing a game of ludo on that dusty, old board! If you can enjoy the simple pleasures of life with him, you’ve got the right guy.
5. Time Spent Together = Fond Memories
Ordinary brunches turn into something special when you’re with him. In fact, every time you meet, you make plans to do something fun or downright whacky because these are the memories that’ll warm your heart and make you smile when you’re a senior couple.
So, if your guy attempts to make memories with you, he is truly your soulmate.
6. You Can Predict His Reactions
You know him inside out because he hasn’t hidden anything from you. And he knows you too and can lip sync with you whenever you get mad and react in pretty much the same way. If that ain’t love, we don’t know what else is!
7. You Like It Private Too
As amazing and flaunt-worthy as your relationship is, you only indulge in social media PDA occasionally, choosing your private space over anything else. Sometimes when the two of you are together, nobody else is allowed.
8. You Bail Each Other Out
Got yourself in a tough spot or a potentially embarrassing situation? You can bank on this guy for he will rescue you from it – even if the danger you’re in is a dull conversation with the neighboring aunty! Nothing will stop you from doing the same for him either.
9. Bear Hugs Are A Norm
When either of you are down, you don’t give each other normal hugs. It’s bear hugs all the way! And it’s never without that gentle hand-squeeze – that tiny special gesture that only the two of you know.
10. Future Planning Is A Part Of The Conversation
You’re not afraid or skeptical about your future together. In fact, you actively talk about it with each other. From baby names to investments and the number of dogs (or cats) you’ll have, you have it all planned out and actually can’t wait to realize all of those plans together – something that can only happen to you when you’re with your soulmate!
11. You Can Share Silence
Sharing silence with anyone is the hardest thing as awkwardness creeps in sooner or later and so does a sense of boredom. But that’s not the case with him. The two of you can stay in silence for hours, just relishing the moment of togetherness and letting everything else take a backseat.
12. You Give Each Other All The Space You Need
Sometimes without even asking! You share a deeper understanding and realize that everybody needs some time off just to be themselves and grow independently. And you don’t mind that in the least!
13. You Always Have Things To Talk About
There’s no end to knowing a person. Both of you are always eager to share and learn more and more about each other every day!
14. You’re Buddies With His Buddies
And you also get along with his family and he with yours! You know how important these people are, which is why both of you respect each other’s friends and family without hesitating.
15. You Have The Same Values
In the end, he is your soulmate and you are his because your value system is just the same. You always want the best for each other.
Got a guy who shows all the 15 signs? Don’t let him go because he’s the one who’s going to fulfil your dreams of becoming the most gorgeous bride in this world!
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