The Ultimate Girl’s Guide To Making Your Guy Forget His Ex
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Love is a beautiful feeling, and one of its strongest strengths is the power to see through your lover’s eyes, to understand each other’s feelings and to have empathy. More often than not, in modern relationships, either of the people involved is there as a shoulder to cry on, as a support system that helps them overcome their bad periods. In this case, let’s assume that to be a sad, bad and broken relationship where she’s having trouble getting over his ex. You know it all? Well, not really, nobody can ever completely figure out what is going in another’s mind. So here are 4 surefire ways you can get him out of the grey and show him how colorful and cool his prospective future with you is.
1. Time Heals
It isn’t an old saying after all. Time truly heals and you ought to give him that. Don’t rush through things, don’t expect him to laugh at your actually funny jokes too. Let him be, and with time he will heal.
2. Be There, As Everything
Be his bro, be his best friend, be the lover he badly needs and be everything and anything that’ll make him better. Better be that support system that every broken heart truly needs.
3. Let Him Know How You Feel (Friendzone Alert!)
This is very important, you aren’t just another friend who really cares. You are a friend who wants to be his next. Make that amply clear. You aren’t in this just because you want to be there, but also because you want him to be your partner. Don’t mess up as ‘friendzone’ is just around the corner.
4. A Slow & Steady Start
New beginnings are great! It’s that phase where he’s over her, but isn’t mad about you. It’s still a great start, it will be slow – get to know each other better, talk about yourselves, your interests and how you see the world, together. You’ve earned his trust and he likes you for sure; make a move, talk and let him know that you’re in it for you love him. But hey, don’t rush but again, don’t wait either. It’s a nice place to be in, make the most of it before it’s formal and we are sure it will be, soon.
All the best!
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