6 Royal Parenting Tips That Actually Make Sense
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Living like the royals may seem far fetched to some, but we have more in common than you’d imagine. Take parenting styles for example, the young Duke and Duchess of Cambridge have made a conscious effort to raise their children in as normal of an environment as possible. Kate has always been praised for having the knack of dealing with children, which has come in handy several times while soothing her 3 little ones. Catering to the needs of 3 children all under the age of 10 can be a demanding and stressful job. That, coupled with an endless stream of followers and cameras can’t be ideal. So what tips and tricks do the royals have up their sleeves to keep the kids happy and composed? Read on to find out!
1. Adhering To Important Values
One great thing that we can all do is pass down good family values that were taught to us. Kate shared how teaching her children the importance of values has deeply impacted her on a podcast called Happy Mum Happy Baby. She reminisces about how her grandmother took the time to teach them how to do crafts, gardening and cooking with them. She says that she tries to do these activities with her kids as well in order to create a deep bond with them. She explains how important it was to her to pass on values like kindness, respect and honesty which she learnt from her parents. But remember, children learn best through observation so if you’d like them to learn, show them how it’s done!
2. Enjoy Quality Time With The Kids
It’s easy to get caught up in our complicated adult worlds sometimes. There’s just so much to juggle and keep track of. If you’re a busy parent, chances are you’re glued to your phone even when you promised to play with the kids. It just can’t be helped! Kate and Will have pressing royal duties to attend to as well. Which is why they stress on taking time off to enjoy spending quality time with the kids, without any distractions. One way they accomplish this is by simply going outside. And no, we don’t mean taking a fancy vacation to a private beach, the couple like to take the kids out for a walk or to the park. Somewhere they can get some exercise. Kate explained that the family is passionate about exploring the outdoors together in order to ensure physical and mental wellbeing.
3. Having A Code Word When The Kids Start Throwing A Fit
The new royals don’t want to paint the picture of the perfect family. We’ve seen their kids cry, get angry and have tantrums, just like all kids do. But how do they deal with this with so many onlookers? Kate explains that the kids have a specific code word she uses to let them know when they are acting out. She says “let’s take a break”, in order to deflect any tension or simply pats them on the head to let them know that they might be in trouble if their behavior continues.
4. Being Affectionate
Compassion is key in the royal household. Although they have been associated with being stoic and cold in the past, the young royals have assured in a new image and parenting style, most probably inspired by the late Princess Diana. Kate and Will are big believers in showing children the love they deserve. They are often seen hugging their kids and patting them affectionately on the shoulder. They find ways to show their kids how much they appreciate them even when all eyes are on them.
5. Let The Kids Get Messy
The royal parents are far from strict. In fact, they love it when their kids get messy and creative at home. The kids are encouraged to get messy in the backyard or the kitchen while crafting. It’s important for kids to have a creative outlet as long as they clean up after themselves. The little royals are expected to put away toys and clean up any crafting supplies they use. So, let your kids experiment with new crafts and teach them the benefits of putting things away, like how they can be used again next week.
6. Mommy And Daddy’s Day Out
Your kids are not the only one you need a day out, you deserve a break too. Sometimes it’s okay to take a break from being parents and treat you and your partner to a fun date night. Your date nights don’t have to be to fancy award shows. Simply enjoying dinner at a restaurant or doing a fun activity together once in two weeks will help you communicate better with your partner, ultimately making you both better parents! If you’re too tired to step out, order some take out and binge watch a couple of episodes of your favorite show, anything to get some alone time. It’s perfectly normal to need time away from the kids. Hire a sitter for the day or a couple of hours and enjoy!
Royal or not, being a parent is challenging. It’s okay if you hit some road bumps along the way as long as you’re doing your best. So, which one of these tips was your favorite? Let us know in the comments section!
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