12 Shocking Signs That He Doesn’t Love You, Just Your Assets!

It would be a real help if there was some way to know right away if a guy was into you or if he just cared for your body. But nobody can accurately guess how a man’s mind works; especially, when you have just met and are thrilled with all the attention you are getting. However, what you can do is to watch out for these twelve eye-opening signs.

1. The Question He Never Answers

He never asks or answers the question, “What’s this all about?” Instead, he shies away from an analysis of the relationship. In such a case, it is highly possible that he cannot relate to you as a person, but is smitten with your looks and nothing more. Beware of flattering, but evasive and superficial answers like, “I still can’t believe this is happening.” Or “Let’s not speak about it and spoil it.” They just show that he doesn’t care enough about you to commit himself to a relationship with you.

2. It’s All About Him

A relationship is about two people taking care of each other. If he only unburdens his woes and worries on you, and somehow, your deepest thoughts stay inside your head and you are probably never given a chance to express yourself, it should make you wonder if he even cares.

3. Not A Friend In Need

The man in your life is not just your lover, but also a friend in need. Ideally, he should be mature enough to have one look at your face and know that you are upset about something. He should step forward and lend a sympathetic ear to you and his shoulder for you to cry on. What would you have done for him if he was in trouble? Think about it.

4. When The Fun And Romance Go Missing

Does he make you wonder if he is the same person who was so much fun when you started dating? Checking on you, joking with you, and planning romantic escapades just to be with you! He no longer seems to try and impress, entertain or flirt with you. Even when you try to flirt with him, he doesn’t seem to catch on to your romantic mood. It is a sure sign that the initial wooing was an act to make you fall for him.

5. All He Speaks About Is Your Body

Do all chats get to be about your physical assets? You even caught him once, boasting about them to his friends. It is possible that although he didn’t really like you so much, he wanted to be with you just for your looks.

6. Makes Insensitive Comments

He not only checks out other women, but talks to you about how you and they compare. He may urge you to get makeover tips from other hot women. This clearly shows he has no clue to your feelings, nor does he respect you as a person.

7. Too Busy To Be With You

It looks like he has no time for you, but for everyone else. It should make you wonder if you are not good company, as his friends are, or if he does not feel comfortable with you as he is with his family, when he spends more time with them and hardly any time with you.

8. No Longer Lovey-Dovey

It sent your heart soaring when he whispered sweet nothings into your ears during a movie, then repeated a corny line from the same movie sometime later. But that doesn’t seem to happen at all of late. It looks like he didn’t mean any of it, but was just hooking you in.

9. Way Too Much Of Chilling At Home

These days he comes to meet you with takeaway food and is clearly not going to spend time or money on taking you out. Then he plays the music of his choice and is happy to lounge on the sofa, glued to his device. It looks like he doesn’t care.

10. When Bedroom Fun Is The Only Game You Play

There are no playful arguments, no heartwarming chats or even petty quarrels between the two of you. You do not share any activities like travelling or partying. All that he is interested in is getting between the sheets with you.

11. When He Makes You Wait… A Lot!

There was a time when he would attend all your phone calls and respond to every text instantly. But of late you have no clue as to what he is up to because he fails to keep in touch. Whenever you confront him about it, his response is halfhearted.

12. Not Saying Those Magical Words

It is always a big deal when someone says they love you; even if it is not the first time. Every girl longs to hear those words once in a while from her partner. But if he finds it hard to say them, it is a clear indicator that he probably is more physically attracted than emotionally committed towards you.

Now, it is possible that your partner may do things mentioned above, once in a while, and still like you for who you are. But if he is a lot like this, it is high time you figured out if he is into you or just your looks!

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