7 Signs That You’re ‘The One’ For Him
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Have you ever found yourself in a situation where you are not sure what comes next in your relationship? Are you spending sleepless nights wondering whether you are his Ms. Right? Don’t worry, you are not alone, all of us have been there at one point of time or the other. Sometimes, it can be very difficult to decode the subtle language of love. A simple gesture can be interpreted in “n” number of ways, leaving you confused and clueless. While there are definite milestones which can tell you how far your relationship has progressed, such as meeting his parents, moving in together, etc. There are other signs as well which can tell you that you are on the right track with your partner.
To put your relationship anxieties at bay we decided to enlighten you about these signs to identify if you’re the one for him. Read on to find out more.
7. You Have A Similar Vision Of The Future
Remember the operative word here is “similar” and it does not mean the same. If you agree on key details like children, career, and finances, it might be that he sees you in his life for the long haul. However, it doesn’t mean that your opinions or views have to match his, word for word. It’s completely all right and to an extent even healthy for your views and opinions to differ from each other as long as your larger picture matches his.
For example, if you both want to have kids in your future, it’s a great sign, to begin with. As long as both your future visions aren’t incompatible or irreconcilable, you are on the right track, girl!
6. He Doesn’t Mind Giving Up On His Singledom
Being in a relationship means you have to make certain adjustments in your life to accommodate the other person. It means you have to put someone else’s need above yours and you wouldn’t do that just for a “fling”, right? If your man doesn’t mind giving his night with the gang a miss, every once in a while, to spend time with you, then girl, you are in for a treat.
5. He Is Comfortable Being Vulnerable Around You
Not just men, all of us want to put up a brave front when we step out in the world. However, it’s especially difficult for men to be vulnerable given their toxic-masculinity baggage. But if your guy confides his fears and doubts in you, and isn’t fearful of being vulnerable in front of you it means that he holds you in the highest regard. He trusts you to not judge him. It signifies that you occupy a special place in his life.
4. He Is The Best Version Of Himself Around You
I had once asked my husband when did he know that I was the one for him, to which he had simply replied, “When I realized that you made me want to be a better person for you.” If you see your partner making efforts to become a better version of himself around you, or trying to make meaningful changes in his life that in some way contribute to his growth as a person, then you can rest assured that he is in it for the long haul. Why else would anyone make such changes in their life?
3. You Can Disagree With Him
Let’s just lay this myth to rest once and for all, a good relationship is not one where you agree on everything, it’s one where you can respect each other’s difference. We all have tried to impress our prospective partners by going along with their choices and opinions at one point in our lives. But this is unsustainable in the long run. In the end, each and every one of us is our own person and we have our own choices and opinions. If you are able to voice these opinions in front of him in a respectful manner and he appreciates you for it, then you know you have hit the jackpot!
2. He Asks For And Values Your Advice
From which tie to wear to when to seek a promotion, if you are his go-to person for all these queries, then girl, you have nothing to fear. You’ve got this. If he looks up to you for guidance in various aspects of his life, it symbolizes that he respects you and your opinions matter to him. It can’t be more obvious than this, it’s literally like he is waving the green flag over your head.
1. You Make Him Ridiculously Happy
Okay, I saved the best and the most obvious one for the last. One of the greatest hallmarks of meant-to-be relationships is that they make you feel on top of the world. They give you the confidence and courage to face the world. If this is how your partner feels around you, then it’s quite obvious that you are the one for him.
So ladies, if you are tired of waiting for your man to put a “ring” on it, you no longer have to wait in the shadows for your turn. If you find your partner displaying any or all of these signs of affection then you can rest assured that the next step in your relationship is commitment.
How did you know that you were the one for your partner? Let us know your experiences in the comments section.
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