12 Steps To Losing The “Good Girl” Tag And Driving Your Man Wild
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Boys want them, women are scared of them, but either way, bad girls get all the attention where they go. However, any guy who’s been with a bad girl knows that while there are things about her that he can’t help but be attracted to, the overall relationship is never steady, secure or most of all, long. It’s almost always the case of a short and tumultuous fling that satisfies his cravings, but often leaves him wanting more emotionally.
The case is such, then, that guys want certain traits that “bad girls” have, but want them in their own “good girl” partner, so that he can have the best of both worlds. If you feel that your guy fits this description (most guys do), then read on to know how get these 12 essential traits that will give you a “bad girl” edge that will drive him crazy.
1. Don’t Let Yourself Go
One of the thing that good girls tend to do when they’re in a relationship is to take it easy when it comes to maintaining their curves and dressing up well. Make sure to hit the gym and put on your sexy clothes when you’re with him, even if you’ve been dating a long time.
2. Be Confident
Whether you’re a teacher or a model, be sure of who you are and what you’re doing. Don’t be cocky, but be supremely confident, and notice how he’ll respect you and try to impress you more and more.
3. Create Your Own Magic
Don’t wait for him to show up with roses and a bottle of wine; take the situation into your own hands and dress up in some sexy lingerie or an old T-shirt of his and wait for him to get back home. Watch his jaw drop.
4. Say ‘No’
Not to everything he says, but to the things that you don’t want to do. It might make him a little angry at first, but he will take you more seriously and think of more interesting things to rope you in. If you say ‘yes’ all the time, you will be walked over.
5. Be High Maintenance
Guys don’t mind an easy going and low-maintenance girl around the house, but when it’s time for a night out on the town, they want a high-maintenance princess on their arms, especially one that will get the attention of all the other men in the room.
6. Don’t Sugar-coat Stuff
Good girls try and take the pain away from their man when something doesn’t go their way, but bad girls will straight up tell them as it is. While the former sounds appealing at the beginning, only the latter will ever help the man learn and accept, and knowing that his girl doesn’t mess around might make him angry, but it will rouse his attention and spirit.
7. Be Who You Are
A bad girl is comfortable in her skin, no matter what others think of her, boyfriend included. She has a highly appealing “take it or leave it attitude” even if others are gossiping about her or say that they don’t like the way she is. The fact is, everybody, guys and girls included, secretly admire her attitude.
8. Stand Up For Yourself
Sure, a bad girl may like being with her man and enjoy his company but she doesn’t let anything come in the way of her wants and desires, and she doesn’t need any man’s help to achieve her aims as well.
9. Be Flirty
Bad girls are, well, flirty. Here’s the thing though, he’s not going to mind if you’re a flirtatious little devil who has all the guys eating out of the palm of her hand, if he gets special treatment and all the real loving reserved for him.
10. Be Adventurous
A bad girl is not as cautious and reserved as a good girl. She’s willing to try things, whether they may be at the bar or restaurant or out on a hike in the countryside. She doesn’t need approval or consultation before attempting anything that catches her fancy.
11. Be Sexy
A bad girl knows she’s hot and she shows it. From the tight fitting attire to the way she talks, moves and grooves, everything about her screams sex appeal. Every guy in the room wants her, and her man is delighted to have her.
12. Be Naughty
Good girls can be prudes and shy away from trying and experiencing new things in the bedroom; bad girls on the other hand do not. They’re a freak in bed, and the guy who’s with them is thanking his stars to be able to experience such a thing. They often initiate sex, and suggest different positions, and keep things very fresh and interesting.
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