4 Things That Could Ruin A Hot Make-Out Session

Kissing is one of the wonderful ways in which you can show love to your SO. And, you should never underestimate the power of a hot make-out sesh! Some quality intimate time with your SO can help you experience more than just pleasure. An intense make-out session can act as an antidepressant, hormone releaser, stress buster, and even a mini workout. When a simple kiss begins to veer into a passionate lip-lock, with something more like hair grabbing or waist clenching, it’s a signal for you that it’s only going to get more intimate now.

And at such a time, the only thing on your mind should be that you shouldn’t make a mistake and turn this beautiful, romantic moment into an absurd one. You don’t want to remain unsatisfied and you don’t want that for your SO too, right?

And for all the first-time kissers, getting it right in one go can be an issue. And if you happen to be one, don’t lose heart, you’ll learn to do it better with time and experience.

But, don’t ever let the thought of “What if I’m bad at it?” destroy your affection towards your SO. Of course, you might still not be aware of your own unique kissing style, but you’ll learn with time.

To make your next make-out session foolproof, we’ve put down a primer of 4 common mistakes that can ruin your make-out session with your partner. The next time you want to do some canoodling with your partner, keep these four things in mind and get your A-game right.

1. Going In With Tongue First

This is one of the major causes of a bad kissing experience. Imagine you close your eyes and lean forward for that kiss, and the first thing you feel is your partner’s tongue. Disgusting! When you’re kissing someone for the first time, keep in mind that your kissing partner will mostly prefer it on their lips. Kissing with your tongue in is something that you can experiment with at a later stage in your relationship. Always make it a point to lead the kiss with your lips because that’s how a kiss usually starts. And that’s exactly what people expect. If you ever happen to make the mistake of leading the kiss with your tongue, then you definitely can’t imagine the discomfort of the person you are kissing. If you want to save your relationship from an awkward fallout, avoid this fatal mistake.

2. Staring Your Way Into A Kiss

Whenever we have witnessed others kiss, be it out in public or in those romcoms, we’ve always seen the couples close their eyes while kissing each other. They might open their eyes in between just to look at their SOs lovingly. But the fact is that a majority chunk of people out there prefer to close their eyes while kissing. Well, the most beautiful things are experienced with eyes closed, right?

You should also make it a point to never stare at your partner while you’re making out with them. This might actually scare your partner off. A make-out sesh is considered to start on a delicate note and then turn into something more passionate. So, whenever you begin, don’t stare at your partner. Close your eyes and feel the love that is being shared between the two of you. If you’ve reached a point in your relationship where you both love looking at each other while kissing, then you could probably go for it. But, first-timers, please don’t make this mistake.

3. Taking The Wrong Name

We’ll never say that you can only have one SO in life. But, we’ll definitely say that you can’t forget the person’s name when you’re kissing them. Whenever you kiss your partner, make sure you take the right name. You don’t want to ruin your relationship by taking your ex’s name, right? You must have broken up recently with your ex, and we totally understand if the relationship you’re getting into is only a rebound for you. But let’s not ignore the possibility of your present SO becoming your forever SO. And besides, it’s manners. You shouldn’t call a person by a different name, especially in an intimate moment like this.

4. Being A Sloppy Kisser

In this case, it won’t just be a bad kissing experience; it would also be a moment of awkwardness and embarrassment that you will remember for the rest of your life. If you know that you are someone who salivates too much then make it a point to wash your mouth with a mouth freshener. If you don’t have the time to do this, at least make it a point to swallow your saliva before you begin the makeout sesh. Exchange of saliva while kissing can turn your partner off, and if you think that doesn’t matter to you, well, it’s unhygienic, and unhealthy too.

So, the next time you want to kiss, keep these points in mind. Whatever intimate move you make with your partner, let it come naturally. Do not plan it. The only thing that you should be concerned about is that you and your partner should be comfortable with it, because, consent matters.

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