10 Ways To Show Him Your Love
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Love is best expressed. When you bottle it up inside and never let more than a tiny smidgen of it show, you cause unnecessary trouble for both you and your partner. Misunderstandings arise and soon catch fire due to your inability to express what you truly feel, leaving nothing but ashes of a failed relationship.
Don’t let that happen to you. Show your man that you really care and love him more than he thinks. Not only will he be happy to know your true feelings, your relationship will take a turn for the better. So, here are 10 easy ways to show him your love!
1. Flirt With Him
Remember those early days when you couldn’t stop flirting with him? Never let them stop! Flirting is one of the best ways to let your partner know that you love him and want him, even if you have been together for ages! Flirting can also help spice up your bedroom life by upping your intimacy quotient!
2. Listen When He Talks
As a woman, you’re probably already blessed to be a great listener, but somewhere down the line you lose interest in the tiny details. If you can’t do it daily, at least once simply listen to him talk. Even if he jabbers on about sports or the economy! You’ll get to know him better, and he’ll feel valued too knowing you care about what he has to say.
3. Indulge In Shared Experiences
Space is an essential part of any relationship, but so are shared experiences. Because a couple who does things together, stays together. So, if you feel your man is drifting away, bring him closer to you by going away for the weekend. Or, alternatively, by joining some kind of activity class that both of you will enjoy! It’s a great way to strengthen your bond and show that you love him.
4. Motivate Each Other To Stay Fit
Sounds like a strange way to show him you love him, but that’s only on the surface. By taking genuine interest in his health, you show him that you care about his wellbeing – something only a woman who really loves her man would do. So, if you see him go down an unhealthy path, be sure to stop him.
5. Create Something Together
Kind of an extension of having shared experiences, creating something together can also bring you closer than ever before! You could start small by letting him enter the kitchen, allowing him to cook a scrumptious meal with you. Or, alternatively, you could always start small home projects, such as potting plants or building a bookcase. These small activities will help him realize that you want him to be a part of everything you do.
6. Share Your Deepest Feelings With Him
Listening to him is important, no doubt, but so is expressing what resides in the deepest and the darkest corners of your heart. So, in a bid to be a cool girlfriend, don’t stop yourself from sharing your insecurities and fears. Let him know how you feel, even if you think it’s embarrassing. It’ll make him feel that he is worthy of your trust and love.
7. Be Willing To Take The Hard Way
If your relationship is falling through the cracks and he feels you’re not making any effort to fix it, show him that’s not the case. Schedule a couple’s counselling session for yourself and him to let him know and feel that you want him in your life, no matter what it takes. Let him know that you’re willing to work on your faults too.
8. Remind Him Of Your Vows
And if you’re not married yet, take new ones with him. He might be a guy, but even men love a little bit of mushy talk every now and then. It makes them happy to listen to vows like, “I vow to be with you forever” or “I will always love you.” Besides taking vows is an awesome and simple way to let him know what your true feelings are.
9. Mix With His Folks
Or if you find it very hard to be on cordial terms with them, at least make the effort to be polite to his friends and family. Don’t actively criticize his folks. Instead, try to find ways to like them a little, just for his sake. That’ll make him happier than you can imagine!
10. Teach Him What You Know
When you decide to love someone, it means letting them into every aspect of your life. At least the most important ones, which include your passions and skills. So, if you can sing or dance or paint or whatever it is you can do, teach it to him too! Involving him in your other loves will show him that you love him enough to do so.
And if all else fails, just cook him up a hearty meal comprising of his favorites! Because you know what they say, “The way to a man’s heart, lies through his stomach.” Amen.
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